Single and living the life...

Hello people,

It's so nice to get married and every little girl has this "happily ever afte dream" thanks to all the caricature we are exposed to whilst growing up...
But wake up girl... you have at least 15 years before you are at that age of saying I DO... so what are you supposed to be doing during all those long years. You can't just WANT happily ever afters you must INTEND to have it... HOW?
Simple answer GET A LIFE ... I have discovered that truly successful marriages are so because the individuals in it had a balanced single life... YES if you don't enjoy life whilst growing up you are most likely to put your partner in trouble/danger of not enjoying married life.
TWO IS BETTER THAN ONE simply because it gets more interesting...
So what are you doing now... living a dull and morose life and you expect a vibrant , young man to come sweep you off to the exciting future you've always longed for or vice-versa...
Wake up again and appreciate life... see it like you are at Disney land and is expected to enjoy every moment in it... Don't be too harsh on yourself no matter what you're facing...
I say Wake-up a third time and I urge you to LIVE LIFE...
Ti